One’s loved ones are the receiver of one’s care, value, commitment, and attachment style. One’s attachment style can vary in degree of confidence and level of security. Philosophers have argued that the adult attachment behavioral system resembles the attachment between infants and their caregivers (Wonderly 2019, p. 24). They have also argued that the style of attachment one experiences as an infant can greatly shape the development of their capacity to love as adults (Wonderly 2019, p. 30). At the same time, attachment is not necessary for love to exist between two people — since one can value, care for…


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